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A Sacred Journey

practicing pilgrimage at home and abroad

Behind the Scenes of “Pilgrim Principles” (part 1)

Behind the Scenes of Pilgrim Principles (part one) » asacredjourney.net

So this is really more of an interview than a tell-all, but I thought the phrase “tell-all” seemed a lot more exciting. Still, I do share a lot of my process behind writing my new book Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention in Everyday Life in a two-part interview I gave with our January Pilgrim in Residence, Kayce Hughlett over at her own blog, Diamonds in the Sky with Lucy. I had such a fun time looking back on my process and answering Kayce’s questions, and I hope you enjoy seeing behind the curtain a bit!

Read a preview below, and then click over to read the rest of part one of the interview and enter for another chance to win a copy of Pilgrim Principles!

Kayce: One of my favorite quotes in your new book is, “Without curiosity, the pilgrimage would never begin.” As a writer, I’m always curious to know what compels other authors to put in the time and effort to bring a book to fruition. Can you share how, when, or why you knew you wanted to write Pilgrim Principles?

Me: Pilgrim Principles was birthed out of two things: 1. I had been developing A Sacred Journey for six months and was ready to offer something more, and 2. in the six months of exploring the practice of pilgrimage on A Sacred Journey, I kept hearing the same question from readers: “What does this mean for me in my everyday life?”

While in graduate school, I wrote a Rule of Life for pilgrims and called it Pilgrim Principles (you can get a free copy of the Rule of Life when you subscribe to A Sacred Journey), and so in response to this question from readers, I decided to develop the Rule of Life further and turn it into an online course. That’s right—a course! In fact, I didn’t even know I would turn it into a book until I finished the first draft and realized that what I’d written could be a book. But once I came to this realization, I knew that turning Pilgrim Principles into a book, instead of a course, was the best step for me and A Sacred Journey. And who knows? Perhaps Pilgrim Principles wouldn’t be available today if I had sat down last year and said, “Okay, now it’s time to write a book. Go.” I always joke that the online course was my Trojan Horse—a necessary deception that was just what I needed to get the real work done.

Kayce: Chapter 5 is dedicated to daily rhythms of grounding. Did you establish your own sacred rhythms during the writing process and, if so, could you please share what they were and how they worked?

Me: I definitely developed some rhythms in my writing process that helped get the initial words onto the page. They weren’t necessarily overtly sacred in the spiritual sense, but I would still describe them as sacred rhythms in that they were the perfect formula for me to start writing, and it was no doubt through being faithful to these rhythms that something sacred emerged…

Read the rest of part one of the interview and enter to win a copy of Pilgrim Principles at Diamonds in the Sky with Lucy »

Why I’m Putting Success to Rest (my un-word for 2014)

Today I’m linking up with The Nester and sharing my un-word: the word I’m going to leave behind in 2014.

Why I'm Putting Success to Rest » asacredjourney.net

Two weeks ago I shared my word (phrase) for 2014: sink in. Apparently I’m not the only one with a word for 2014. Whether they’ve chosen the word or allowed the word to choose them, people all over the blogosphere have been sharing their words for 2014. This is my first year to determine a word, and I love the idea. Already it’s serving as a North Star as I navigate daily life and make plans for things to come (and also as I learn to plan a little less—all a part of sinking in for this wanderer who is always ready for what’s next). Additionally, as I said to Dan in the comments of my 2014 word post, I’m hoping that my word will not only continue guide me this year, but also be a promise of things to come.

However, as much as I am grateful for my 2014 word, I was intrigued last week when I stumbled upon this invitation from The Nester last week: choose an un-word for the year—a word you’d like to leave behind.

Already totally in love with my word for the year, sink in, I began to wonder what word I’d like to leave behind—to say “no” to, at least for a little while. It didn’t take too long to realize the little word wrapped up in big expectations that had driven me crazy all of 2013: success.

I’ve already shared with you how difficult it’s been to find my way over this past year with A Sacred Journey—to follow my path, to find my voice, to determine what I have to give. I spent a portion of the year caught up in the sizzling world of online entrepreneurs, influenced by posts about “My First Five Figure Launch” and courses claiming to teach me “How to Get 1,000 subscribers in 30 days.” I learned a lot of valuable things about running a blog and using Social Media during that season, certainly. But I was also left with a great sense of lack.

When I finally realized my goal wasn’t really to have a five figure launch and that I was only feeling the need to grow my subscriber list because that’s what they were telling me to do, I left my unnecessary (and unhelpful) number-oriented ambitions behind and began to focus more on the content that I wanted to offer. I started writing my first e-course, Pilgrim Principles (which you won’t find anywhere in this form because it doesn’t exist), and made plans for a library of other courses and offerings related to the 10 types of pilgrimage, because that’s what people I admired were doing.

But when I finished my first draft of Pilgrim Principles, the thought of selling it as an e-course felt constricting, and I wasn’t excited about any of the other offerings I’d dutifully added to my list of “shoulds” and “to-dos.” Even though I was told that high-priced courses would solidify the value of my work and be the path to success, it wasn’t a path I felt comfortable taking. It is a great direction for many, but it wasn’t mine—at least not yet.

And so I turned the material I’d written for my Pilgrim Principles e-course into my first book, and made changes to A Sacred Journey that were less oriented toward offerings and more oriented toward what I love: regular posts on the topics of spirituality and intention in travels and everyday life. I decided to slow down on my drive toward stability and certainly and decided to instead enjoy and be present for the journey.

And most important, I decided to leave success behind.

That doesn’t mean that I don’t want my book to sell well (you can buy your copy on amazon.com or barnesandnoble.com), and that doesn’t mean I don’t want to grow my audience, either. I’m passionate about viewing travels and daily life through the lenses of pilgrimage and journey and am so eager to have conversations about spirituality and intention. But I’m not going to let numbers determine the worth of my words anymore. And I’m not going to let money or missed milestones define the value of what I have to offer.

And so, in 2014, I’m saying “no” to striving for success, letting go of ideals that so often distract me from staying in the present and delighting in my questions, my passions, and my desires. Call my un-word “unsuccess,” if you’d like, but I have no plans for sabotage. Instead, this year I’m releasing my preoccupation with success, letting A Sacred Journey guide me wherever it leads, and learning more and more to sink in.

GO FURTHER…

What about you? What’s your “un-word” for the year ahead?

The Un-Word of the YearRead the rest of the posts in the
“Un-Word of the Year” linkup
at thenester.com.

Travel Tip: DIY Memento Pouch

Today I’m introducing a new Tuesday series called Travel Tip Tuesday, where I’ll be sharing some of my favorite travel tips for the enlightened traveler. Have a travel tip you’d like to share? Let me know here.

Travel Tip Tuesday: DIY Memento Pouch » asacredjourney.net

One of my favorite things to do while traveling is collect mementos along the way—ticket stubs, brochures, funny advertisements—even olive leaves from the Roman Forum have found their way into my pocket as I attempt to take with me just a little bit of the places I fall in love with. Truth be told, the olive leaves and Vatican ticket from that journey remained in the outside pocket of my purse for five years until I gave them to a friend—a small memento of a journey long since passed.

And you know how people sometimes find money in their coats when they put them on the following winter? Well I just recently gave away a rarely worn coat and in its pockets found a ticket stub from a flight to Russia, a National Express bus pass, and a bus ticket from a late night spent moving suitcases across town in London (and, for the sake of full disclosure, a handful of tissues). Though the real reason I still had these things after 4 years was because I had only worn the coat a few times since, discovering these items in my pockets brought back a flood of memories, and perhaps I kept them in my coat pocket all those years just because I loved the surprise of remembering.

I’m sure we all hold onto mementos like these with the best intentions. We’ll scrapbook! Or perhaps we’ll use them in a collage? Maybe we’ll frame them! But you know where mine usually end up? In a box in my closet (and the pockets of my bags and coats). So here’s a travel tip that I plan on following in the future: glue an envelope in the back of your travel journal, creating a pouch for all of your mementos (a DIY inspired by Moleskine). These mementos are tangible keepsakes of your experience and they deserve a place alongside your reflections, inviting you to journey once more and bringing to mind some of your most transformative memories as you flip through the pages and sift through the ticket stubs years down the road.

GO FURTHER…

Do you collect mementos from your travels? What do you do with them?

AND ONE MORE THING…

pilgrim-principlesDid you enter to win a copy of Pilgrim Principles last week over at The Cream to My Coffee? If so, head on over to see if you’ve won! If you’re the lucky one, Ashley will be connecting with you soon. And if you’re not? There’s another chance to win my book this week over at The Meaning Movement (ends 1/19 at midnight PST). enter here »

There’s still time to enter the other giveaways that began last week! Each item is an excellent resource for infusing your travels and daily life with spirituality and intention.

The Desire MapA copy of The Desire Map book by Danielle LaPorte
ends 12/14 at midnight PST
enter here »

"As I Lay Pondering" by Kayce HughlettA copy of As I Lay Pondering: daily invitations to
live a transformed life
by our January Pilgrim in Residence,
Kayce Hughlett
ends 12/15 at midnight PST
enter here »

Eat, Pray, LoveA copy of Eat, Pray, Love on DVD
ends 12/16 at midnight PST
enter here »

My Word for 2014

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It’s been less than a month since I gave this site a new look, a week since we’ve started a new year, and just a couple of days since I officially launched my book and began celebrating my new blog format with giveaways (enter Monday’s here and Tuesday’s here). And while I’ve only known my word (or phrase, really) for 2014 for just over a week, I can already feel its significance in this season, begging me to surrender—to sink in.

At the end of each year, Christine Valters Paintner, the online Abbess at Abbey of the Arts (who also wrote the foreword for my book and shared with us about planning a personal retreat last May), runs a free online course for her subscribers called “Give Me a Word.” Instead of choosing a word for your year, Christine leads readers on a process in which the word chooses them, which is to say the word is given by the Sacred Guide, the Holy Spirit, the One who knows the path to our truest selves.

Though I’ve been following Christine for many years, this was the first time I set out to “receive” my word for the upcoming year, and while Christine offers many practices to bring inspiration as you wait attentively for your word to choose you, my word arrived surprisingly quickly, as if it were waiting in the wings. The word that chose me? Sink in. (Okay, I know it’s two words, but I’m just going to keep referring to it as my “word” anyway.)

It’s a word that will play less of a starring role in 2014 and more of a supportive one, but one that, if I am attentive to its gentle whisper, will alter my very way of being. And while it seems so subtle, it just so happens that the word sink in is the antithesis of the word that so often subconsciously drives me: grasp.

Grasp is a word and a feeling I am quite familiar with, and one that was woven throughout 2013 (and, indeed, my life thus far). 2013 was a year of courage for me, yes, and I don’t want to discount that. I started A Sacred Journey and I wrote my first book, the latter an achievement I never would have imagined I would accomplish—not yet, anyway. But 2013 was also a year of wrestling—to find my voice, to find my vocation, to find my own trajectory. And with wrestling often comes its dark side, uncertainty, which isn’t necessarily dark, per se, but in times of doubt always leaves me grasping.

As I enter 2014 things are looking a lot clearer. I’m settling into my voice, discerning my vocation (more on what’s in the works soon!), and feeling better aligned with my path. I’m excited to be sharing and journeying here with you on a more regular basis. Now that my book is done, I’m also starting to do design work again, and I’m making plans to incorporating my design work with my work here at A Sacred Journey (be on the lookout for a shop with inspirational prints in the coming months!). And in the spring we’ll be moving back to Seattle, a place we love with people we love, and a location we hope to settle in. With all of these exciting things ahead, it feels like I’ll have many opportunities to sink in.

Of course, that doesn’t mean the year won’t also have moments and seasons of uncertainty and doubt, leaving me grasping. In fact, I had those feelings about 15 times on Monday, the day of my book launch, and I expect they’ll keep up their regular appearances (they’re always so dependable—how kind). The reality is, it is especially in such moments that my word for 2014 will be so important to bring to my attention, a whisper in my ear like the still, small voice of God amidst the chatter in my mind, calling me once more to sink in—sink into the tension, sink into the doubt, sink into my hopes, my fears, my desires—sink in.

Interested in “receiving” your word for 2014? There’s one week left to participate in Christine Valters Paintner’s free e-course when you subscribe here.

GO FURTHER…

What word is choosing you in 2014?

TODAY’S GIVEAWAY

The Desire MapOne of my greatest tools as I’ve sought more clarity over the past year has been Danielle LaPorte’s Desire Map and determining my Core Desired Feelings. (Mine? Freedom, fulfilled, centered, refreshed, and empowered, which I originally shared here and hope to write about in more detail someday soon.) Danielle’s just recently re-launched The Desire Map à la carte-style, and it’s better than ever. Today I’m giving away a copy of The Desire Map book so you can start determining your own Core Desired Feelings as you begin the New Year. To enter, follow the instructions below.

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TUESDAY’S GIVEAWAY

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Yesterday I shared on my friend Ashley’s blog, The Cream to My Coffee. Head on over to enter to win a copy of Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention in everyday life. This giveaway is only happening at The Cream to My Coffee, so you must enter there to win. Click here to go to the guest post to enter. All entries must be made by Monday, January 13 at midnight PST. The winner will be contacted by Ashley of The Cream to My Coffee.

MONDAY’S GIVEAWAY

The WayYou still have time to enter for a chance to win a copy of the pilgrim-favorite, The Way, about a father’s journey along the Camino de Santiago de Compostela after the loss of his son. Click here to go to Monday’s post to enter. All entries must be made by Sunday, January 12 at midnight PST. The winner will be announced right here on A Sacred Journey on Monday, January 13.

It’s Here! Where You Can Buy My New Book, “Pilgrim Principles”

Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention in Everyday Life

It’s here! After many, many months and what seems like thousands of hours, my book, Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention in Everyday Life, is available to purchase! You can get it in print at barnesandnoble.com and amazon.com (available internationally), or, if you’re the electronic type, you can also get it on Kindle (in fact, if you buy it in print on Amazon first you can buy the Kindle version at a discounted rate through the Kindle Matchbook program for only $2.99!).

If you’re new to the book, be sure to check out pilgrimprinciples.com, where you can read the book description, find out what others are saying, and read a free preview from each section of the book! You can also watch the book trailer, but I’ve reposted it here because I just love it so:

video by Sparkfly Photography and music by Feather & Belle

I’m also excited to announce the winner of a signed copy of Pilgrim Principles from my subscriber list: Rose Durham of Oklahoma City, OK. Congratulations Rose!

If that’s not you (perhaps you weren’t on my subscriber list?), don’t worry. You’ll have many more chances to win a copy of Pilgrim Principles and more of my favorite pilgrim resources. Tomorrow I’ll be guest posting on The Cream to My Coffee with some thoughts for those of you who have already broken your New Year’s Resolutions and I’ll also be giving away another copy of Pilgrim Principles there! Come back tomorrow for a link to the post.

Additionally, in celebration of the launch of my new blog format (5 posts a week, oh my!), I’m doing a giveaway later today and also Wednesday through Friday right here on A Sacred Journey. Come back each day (Tuesday at thecreamtomycoffee.com) and leave a comment for your chance to win one of the following prizes:

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One last thing. I could really use your help in spreading the word about Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention in Everyday Life. Here are five things I would love for you to do:

1. Buy the book

This one’s obvious, right? Find it in print on barnesandnoble.com and in print and for Kindle at amazon.com.

2. Leave a review

Once you’ve spent some time with the book, I’d appreciate it if you’d rate the book and leave an honest review on barnesandnoble.com, amazon.com, and also on goodreads.com (personally, I gave it 5 starts). It will help to make the book more prominent and will hopefully encourage more people to buy it, but I suppose that all depends on what you say (ahem…)!

3. Share the book on social media

Tell your friends about your new favorite book! Share a link to this post, one of the book listings, or pilgrimprinciples.com on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram, etc., etc., etc. (Go ahead and like A Sacred Journey on Facebook and follow me on Twitter, Instagram, and Pinterest while you’re at it.)

4. Write about the book

Do you have a blog? I’d love it if you’d share a review on your site. Or, I’d be happy to write a guest post related to the content of the book!

5. Give a copy to a family member or a friend

Christmas is over, but that’s no reason to stop giving! Especially when it’s a book that’s perfect for setting meaningful intentions for the New Year. So why not head on over and buy another copy? (Available in print at barnesandnoble.com and in print and for Kindle at amazon.com, just in case you forgot.)

Thanks so much for your continued support! I’m off to celebrate. Brunch, perhaps? Check back later this afternoon for a post from our Liturgical Guide Katie Jensen on Epiphany and your chance to win one of my favorite movies about pilgrimage, The Way.

Final Pilgrim Principles FREE Book Preview: Intuition

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It’s the final week for a new free preview of Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention in Everyday Life, and we end with the seventh principle: “A pilgrim seeks to know his Inner Witness.” The seventh principle is all about the place where the true self and Divine meet, a place that no-doubt breeds intuition, which this preview explores today. Other categories discussed with this principle in the book include acceptance, awareness, insight, and enthusiasm (one of my favorites, but you’ll have to read the book to find out why!).

Before you dive into this final preview, be sure to catch up on the other six! And of course as the day of release draws near (less than 3 weeks!), you can always find all things related to the book at pilgrimprinciples.com (it’s the site where you’ve been sending all your friends, right?). You can even be entered for a chance to win a signed copy if you sign up to get updates from A Sacred Journey!

1. “A pilgrim looks for the Sacred in the Quotidian” // Home

2. “A pilgrim practices somatic spirituality” // Taste

3. “A pilgrim is a good steward of resources” // Possessions

4. “A pilgrim immerses herself in culture” // Language

5. “A pilgrim creates daily rhythms to ground himself” //  Body (guided meditation)

6. “A pilgrim carries herself with curiosity” // Delight

MORE PRAISE FOR THE BOOK

Some more words of praise for the book before we jump into the final preview, this time from Dana Reynolds of Sacred Life-Arts (listen to my interview as part of her Women of Wisdom series here):

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“Through her practical, invitational, and inspirational Pilgrim Principles, Lacy provides holistic guidance to experience daily life as an earthly pilgrimage. This book is a field guide for the pilgrim’s soul and a sacred tool for transformation for those seeking ways to enrich their inner and outer journeys.”

Sybil Dana Reynolds, Spiritual Director
author of Ink and Honey
sacredlifearts.com

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Often regarded as the sixth sense, intuition is natural and essential, yet so elusive and mysterious. But then again, the Inner Witness can be as well. If our journeys are led by the rumblings and desires of the Inner Witness, then it’s our intuition that guides us to the places of Sacred Encounter. 

When people talk about following their intuition, they often use phrases like, “I felt that it was true,” “I had a sense that it would turn out that way,” or “I can’t explain it, I just know it.” Intuition is a deep knowing, but often unlike the world’s definition of knowing. Typically intuition’s message can’t be outlined neatly with facts or figures or even expressed in words. It is a knowing deep within our hearts and in our bones—a message stemming from our subconscious, our true selves, our Inner Witness. Some might say it is a message from God.

Being able to tap into and reap wisdom from our intuition can be beneficial in many ways. It can guide us in decision making and let us know where we stand. It can warn us of what lies ahead or tell us what action to take in the present moment. It can also be an indicator of the state of our relationship with our essential self. For example, many of us are plagued with bouts of self-doubt from time to time. When we pause to explore these feelings, our intuition can serve as a spotlight, shining light into the darkness, speaking truth into the chasm that has separated us from our true selves and our inherent worthiness.

For the pilgrim, intuition is like a lantern for the journey—a light in the darkness, indicating to the pilgrim his next step and guiding him along the path. When he holds it closely, he too will be in the light. And if he is separated from it, he can always find it again if he searches for the truth. So how can the pilgrim pick up this lantern at home? How can you bask in its light and search for its truth within the darkness? How do you begin to recognize and use this sixth sense in everyday life?

Like many practices of the pilgrim, it starts with awareness. Intuition often appears as a sharp and sudden feeling or a deeply-seated yet indescribable certainty. When you have these experiences, pay attention. What are they telling you? If it is indeed a message from the Inner Witness—a glimmer of light in the darkness—then it will be a message that moves you in the direction of truth, life, and love. If this is the case, then the next step in following your intuition is to take a risk—a step of faith by the light of your intuition, even when the path ahead is still dark with uncertainty.

I could say more, but it would be of no use, for our intuitions are each as unique as our true selves and our Inner Witnesses, and so your intuitive path lies in your hands only. To begin to follow it is an act of intuition within itself. What comes next is up to you.

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PRACTICE

When you notice that you have a certain feeling about a particular decision or situation, but you can’t necessarily explain it, pick up your lantern and look closely to see what your intuition might be trying to reveal. It can be risky to act on things based on a feeling, so as you determine what steps to take and which voice to follow, remember this: the Inner Witness—the intuitive whisperer—is always wanting to lead you toward life and your true self.

REFLECTION

Do you feel in touch with your intuition? If so, what happens when you act on your intuition? If not, what are some ways you might begin to explore and act on your intuition each day?

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This post was an excerpt from Pilgrim Principles: Journeying
with Intention in Everyday Life, releasing January 6, 2014.
Learn more about the book and enter to win a signed copy
at pilgrimprinciples.com.

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Pilgrim Principles FREE Book Preview: Delight

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We’ve been at this for a while now, and there’s less than a month until the book launch! Have you signed up to get updates from A Sacred Journey so that you can be entered to win a signed copy? Have you visited the book site and shared it with everyone you’ve ever met? (Just a small request, right?) If you’re still not counting down the days yet (26, to be precise), watch the book trailer to get you in the spirit, and then come on back.

Today’s free preview is about “delight” and comes from the 6th Pilgrim Principle (1 more to go!): “A pilgrim carries herself with curiosity.” In the book, I explore four other expressions that help cultivate curiosity (a necessity for the pilgrim, for what’s a journey without it?): openness, willingness, desire, and perspective.

Enjoy today’s free preview, pass it on, and while you’re at it, tell your friends and family about how much you’ve enjoyed the other free previews, too:

1. “A pilgrim looks for the Sacred in the Quotidian” // Home

2. “A pilgrim practices somatic spirituality” // Taste

3. “A pilgrim is a good steward of resources” // Possessions

4. “A pilgrim immerses herself in culture” // Language

5. “A pilgrim creates daily rhythms to ground himself” //  Body (guided meditation)

MORE PRAISE FOR THE BOOK

ksh_hawaii“Lacy weaves classic pilgrimage wisdom with fresh, accessible insight. She skillfully includes uncommon words like ‘quotidian’ alongside her own creative ‘pilgrim glasses’… reminding us to see the Sacred in everything. This book is the perfect pilgrim’s pack—filled with essentials, necessities, and a touch of surprise!”

Kayce Stevens Hughlett
author of 
As I Lay Pondering: Daily Invitations
to Live a Transformed Life
kaycehughlett.com

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pilgrim principles free book preview: delight

It’s summer now, and my husband and I are two months into our first vegetable garden. This year we planted purple bell peppers, jalapeños, cucumbers, wax beans, and three varieties of tomatoes. Ever since we planted our garden in May, I have been fascinated by the growing process of food that I’ve eaten for years, but apparently never fully understood. As a result, tending to the garden has been a great source of delight.

At least once each day–and often more–I venture out to the garden, checking in on the plants, as if we’re good friends. I love discovering blooms, knowing now that they are a harbinger of new fruit, and I routinely stare in awe at my vining cucumbers, amazed that yet another tendril has spiraled around a string since I’ve been away. “It’s like it’s alive!” I exclaim, not able to hide my excitement from anyone who asks about the garden. “I mean, I know it’s alive, but it’s alive alive!”

Yes, it seems that keeping a vegetable garden has brought me so much delight that I have lost my ability to articulate it clearly and can only describe my wonder with child-like excitement. It was no surprise then when I came to realize that by growing a garden I have not only been cultivating food–I have also been cultivating my curiosity through the gift of delight.

As we’ve discovered this week, curiosity is a natural trait of the pilgrim, for without curiosity, the pilgrimage would never begin. But for those who have forgotten how to be curious, it’s hard to know where to start. Often, to cultivate curiosity in our own lives, we need external inspiration. In order to carry ourselves with curiosity, it must be cultivated, and the best place to start is in the places where we find delight, for it’s there that our curiosity lies waiting for our embrace.

The pilgrim knows this and doesn’t wait until she reaches another country or a life-altering circumstance to ask questions or be filled with awe–she nourishes her curiosity at home, relishing in her delights. And when she allows herself to delight, celebrating her curiosity, she begins to become curious in other areas of life as well–she begins to carry herself with curiosity.

Tomorrow we’ll explore another way to do just that, but for me, gardening is a good place to start. As I’ve been writing, it seems a tomato that’s long been green has begun to ripen into an orangey-red by the warmth of the sun, and I have to go outside and look at it. What can I say? I’m curious.

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PRACTICE

To begin exploring what brings you delight, collect images of things that attract your attention and put them in a place you see on a regular basis, such as on your refrigerator, on a bulletin board in your office, or as a slideshow screensaver. After a while you might begin to notice some themes and will be able to go even further in your search for delight. For example, if most of your pictures are of delectable desserts, take a baking class, and if your inspiration board is filled with images of the quaint English countryside, plant a garden that has its own way of transporting you there.

REFLECTION

What are the things that you are curious about that bring you delight? How can you incorporate these things into your everyday?

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This post was an excerpt from Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with
Intention in Everyday Life, releasing January 6, 2014.

Come back next Wednesday for the final free preview and learn more
about the book 
and enter to win a signed copy at pilgrimprinciples.com.

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Pilgrim Principles FREE Book Preview: Body (+ Win a Signed Copy!)

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It’s a big day here at A Sacred Journey! Not only do you get another free preview of the book today (this time a guided meditation)–today is also the day that the book website is launching! Pilgrimprinciples.com is your resource for learning more about the book, finding all of the free previews, reading more of what others are saying, and finding buttons and images to share on your blog or through social media. It’s time to spread the word!

You can also enter to win a signed copy of the book at pilgrimprinciples.com by signing up to receive A Sacred Journey’s weekly newsletter (those already signed up will be automatically entered). But what I’m most excited to share with you about the new site is the book trailer–a tantalizing foretaste of the book if I do say so, myself. Click here or on the video below to watch it now. (But don’t forget to come back to read your next free preview!)

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Video by Sparkfly Photography; Music by Feather & Belle, used with permission

Have you watched the trailer? Did you drool with anticipation? And did you sign up to be entered to win a free copy? Good. Then you’re ready for this week’s free preview, which is from the 5th Pilgrim Principle: “A pilgrim creates daily rhythms to ground himself.” In the book, I focus on 5 areas of centering: mind, soul, spirit, presence, and the subject of today’s free preview–body. Today’s preview is a guided meditation–something that you’ll find with each principle in the book. I’ve also included a review I just received from Victor Saad, someone who is truly embracing life as a journey. (Read more reviews here.) Missed a preview? I’ve linked to all of them below.

Enjoy, and don’t forget to share!

1. “A pilgrim looks for the Sacred in the Quotidian” // Home

2. “A pilgrim practices somatic spirituality” // Taste

3. “A pilgrim is a good steward of resources” // Possessions

4. “A pilgrim immerses herself in culture” // Language

MORE PRAISE FOR THE BOOK

Victor“Lacy takes you on a journey you’ve always longed for but never knew how to begin. With her as your gracious and eloquent guide, you’ll find yourself asking questions that move your soul and lead to meaningful discoveries. But beware, this is no quick read of quips and cliche advice. Pack your bags and bring along a few extra journals. The challenges and exercises will take you through meditation, practice, and reflection–all fueled by a hope that you will know your creator, your world, and your self far better than before.”

Victor Saad, founder of The Experience Institute
and author of The Leap Year Project

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a guided meditation

When we explored the second Pilgrim Principle, “A pilgrim practices somatic spirituality,” we talked about just how important the body is to our spirituality and how it can be used as a vessel for Sacred Encounter, inviting us to engage our spirituality in new ways. In the same way, the pilgrim knows that the exterior physical journey is a conduit to the interior spiritual journey. This is why, as we seek to ground ourselves, centering the body plays an especially important role.

Though it’s not often recognized in Western medicine, the wellness of the body is connected to the wellness of the mind or soul. Think about it: When you’re angry, does your body tense up? When you’re nervous, does your heart pound quickly? When you’re anxious, do you find that you might not be breathing as often or as deeply as you should?

No wonder we have expressions such as “Don’t forget to breathe” or “I have butterflies in my stomach.” Our bodies respond to the emotions and thoughts we’re experiencing, whether we’re aware of it or not. Sometimes our bodies can tell us that something is wrong when we don’t even know it–they hold our struggle and anxiety when we are unable or unwilling to do so otherwise.

Just as discomfort in our bodies can remind us to check in with our thoughts or emotions, when we experience heavy or complex thoughts and emotions, centering our body can help us to center our mind and soul. In this exercise we’re going to go through a meditation that you can use in the future–on your own at anytime and anyplace–when you want to center your body in order to help center your mind, soul, and spirit, calling you back to presence.

GUIDED MEDITATION

Get into a comfortable seated position with your feet on the floor. Close your eyes, gently breathing in and out for a few moments, slowing your breath, slowing your body, slowing your mind.

Now we’re going to begin a breathing exercise used in yoga and meditation, called ujjayi breath (pronounced oo-jai-ee). Ujjayi breath brings relaxation to the body, cultivating deep breathing that takes us all the way to our edges, where our lungs are fully empty and then conversely where they are completely full. To insure that your stomach and lungs are expanding when you breathe, it might be helpful to place one hand on your chest and the other on your stomach.

Slowly breathe in through the nose, filling first the belly, then the chest, until your lungs are completely full. Pause, holding the breath in, and then slowly breathe out through the mouth with a slight “ha” sound (like waves in the ocean), releasing first the chest and then the belly, until your lungs are completely empty. Pause there, holding the breath out, and repeat. Your breathing will sound like waves rolling into the shore.

Closing your eyes, continue the ujjayi breath, breathing in to the count of four, pausing, and then breathing out to the count of four and pausing once more.

continue the breath for a few minutes with your eyes closed

Begin to relax your breath into a normal and steady thoughtless pace. You might find that your body is starting to feel centered already. Now we’re going to practice awareness of our bodies, beginning with our toes all the way to the top of our head. This practice helps your mind to stay focused on your body and can also help you recognize where you’re feeling pain or tension that you might not have noticed otherwise. It is also a good practice when you want to call yourself back to the present moment.

read each prompt one-by-one below,
following the instructions slowly as you go along, taking time to pause
and notice how you feel between each prompt

  • Begin with your toes and the soles of your feet firmly on the ground. Without moving, feel the energy in your feet–the warmth, your blood flowing, the feeling of them touching the ground.

  • Now slowly move your focus up to your knees. How do they feel?

  • Continue moving up to your hips, feeling the energy of your body against your chair, grounded and rooted in your current position.

  • Now move your attention up to your chest. How’s your breathing? Feel your chest rise and fall with the steadiness of your breath, and notice how it moves your entire upper body.

  • Move out down the arms into your hands, resting. Do you feel the energy flowing, even though you’re not moving? Remember with gratitude all of the work your hands do each day.

  • Now shift your focus back up the arms to your shoulders. This is a place where many people hold a lot of tension. Make sure your shoulders are back, opening your chest, and imagine breathing into that space, caring for and relieving any tension that’s there.

  • Finally, move up to your mouth, your nose, your ears, your eyes, until you’ve reached the top of your head. Breathe clarity and peace into a place that’s so often consumed with thoughts.

bring your meditation to a close by returning
for a few moments to the ujjayi breath

As you come to an end, close your eyes once more and sit in stillness for a few moments, noticing how you feel.

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PRACTICE

Do this meditation on your own anytime you feel chaotic and need re-centering, remembering how physically feeling grounded can lead to emotional, mental, and spiritual centering.

REFLECTION

How does your body feel after this meditation? How do you feel? In what ways can you incorporate exercises like these in moments when you need to feel grounded?

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This post was an excerpt from Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention
in Everyday Life, releasing January 6, 2014.

Come back next Wednesday for another free preview and learn more about the book
and enter to win a signed copy at pilgrimprinciples.com.

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Pilgrim Principles FREE Book Preview: Language

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It’s been three weeks since I announced my upcoming book, Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention in Everyday Life. So far, I’ve shared with you a free preview from the first two sections of the book, giving you a glimpse of the first, second, and third Pilgrim Principles. Here’s a quick review (you’ve been keeping up, right?):

1. “A pilgrim looks for the Sacred in the Quotidian” // Home

2. “A pilgrim practices somatic spirituality” // Taste

3. “A pilgrim is a good steward of resources” // Possessions

As you know, the book won’t be released until January 6, 2014, but while you wait you can find a free preview from each section of the book every Wednesday until Christmas, giving you a taste of all seven Pilgrim Principles (and hopefully leaving you yearning for more!).

This week’s preview fits perfectly with the pilgrim’s love for travel, focusing on the fourth Pilgrim Principle, “A pilgrim immerses herself in culture. In the book, we cover five areas to immerse yourself in culture both at home and abroad, including customs, beliefs, location, food, and  the subject of this week’s free preview: language. 

Enjoy, and mark your calendars for the Pilgrim Principles website and book trailer release next week (made with the help of two pilgrims who have contributed here: video by Dan Cumberland with music by Kelsey Kopecky). And of course, another free preview right here on A Sacred Journey.

MORE PRAISE FOR THE BOOK

And because I’m just getting excited, here’s another review of the book, this time from Abby Hollingsworth, blogger at dearabbyleigh.com (remember my “Dress for the Trip You Want to Have” post?):

abby-hollingsworth“Like an archeologist preparing a precious lost artifact for display, Lacy brings the ancient art of pilgrimage into the spotlight of our modern world with great care and delight. Pilgrim Principles is a gentle call to the Sacred in all of our daily journeys, a reminder that we are travelers in this world whether we leave home or not, and the opportunity to traverse this life with intention is one we can’t afford not to take. Lacy is a qualified and generous guide in this journey, one that brings readers closer to their true selves by the end.”

-Abby Hollingsworth, dearabbyleigh.com

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pilgrim principles free book preview: language

The final category we’re going to explore that the pilgrim encounters as she enters another culture is language. Language covers a whole world of difference, including not only foreign tongues, but regional dialects and popular expressions as well.

If you speak English, you are lucky enough to be able to navigate your way through most of the world with your mother tongue (or second, third, or fourth language, if that’s the case–if so, you can just skip on right on ahead!). But there is a downside to this as well: since it is not as necessary for native English speakers to learn another language, many do not. However, learning another culture’s language–at least enough to engage in some form of conversation–is important for the pilgrim seeking immersion.

This is even true for various dialects of the same language. There are many different dialects within the English language, but the ones I’ve most often encountered are American English (my own dialect) and British English. Some of these differences you learn the hard way, but once you know them, you feel far more engaged in the culture you are visiting.

While studying abroad in London, I visited a friend and his family in Birmingham. My friend and I were lounging late one afternoon, a cup of tea in my hand, and my friend’s father came in and said, “Lacy, would you like some tea?” I responded by saying “Oh I already have some, thank you,” thinking that it was kind for him to offer. However, that was not quite the case. My friend jumped in, translating what his father was really asking in his thick West Midlands accent: “What he means is, would you like some supper?”

“Oh!” I replied. All these years, after watching British TV shows, movies, and reading British books, I was thinking that the British were simply having tea all the time (which really wouldn’t be an overstatement). However, now that I know they also use “tea” to describe supper, I assume that many of those instances involved a little more than tea and biscuits (not your flaky Southern biscuits, by the way, but that’s another differentiation entirely).

And of course, beyond tongues and dialects, language can be unique to a culture through expressions. At the graduate school I attended, The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology, it was common knowledge that because we were studying and processing things together, we shared a common language–always talking about story, self-care, “sitting with” things, and moving from “binaries” to the reality of “both/and.”

Feeling a little foreign? It makes sense. I’m sure someone who glanced at this book without understanding the language we’ve been using might feel a little foreign, too. That’s because even when we’re talking about pilgrimage, we’re using a particular language–departure, arrival, return, journey, path, longing, desire, Sacred, Divine–these aren’t words that many people use every day (see the glossary on page 9 if you need a refresher). But as you’ve been immersed in this language over the past many weeks, you’d probably say that you know more about what it means to be a pilgrim.

It’s amazing how deep language goes, isn’t it? By learning the languages of other cultures–whether a country as big as Russia or a community as small as a graduate school in downtown Seattle–we can truly know more of a culture and become immersed.

 

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PRACTICE

This week, begin exploring your own language–the unique words or phrases you use that are common to you–and discover what story your language is telling. You can also begin paying attention to the language of those around you, particularly those who might be different than you, seeking to understand them in a new way.

And why not begin preparing for your next journey by starting to study the language of a place you’ve always wanted to visit? It might seem daunting to learn it all, but “hello,” “please,” and “thank you,” is a good place to start.

REFLECTION

Do you have experience speaking different languages? What does it feel like when you begin to understand another language, whether new expressions, different dialects, or a new language entirely?

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This post was an excerpt from
Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention in Everyday Life,
releasing January 6, 2014.

Come back next Wednesday for another free preview!

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Pilgrim Principles FREE Book Preview: Possessions

launch-3Two weeks ago I announced my upcoming book, Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention in Everyday Life. So far, I’ve shared with you a free preview from the first two sections of the book, giving you a glimpse of the first and second Pilgrim Principles. Read the first two free previews here:

1. “A pilgrim looks for the Sacred in the Quotidian” // Home

2. “A pilgrim practices somatic spirituality” // Taste

The book won’t be released until January 6, 2014, but while you wait you can find a free preview from each section of the book every Wednesday until Christmas, giving you a taste of all seven Pilgrim Principles (and hopefully leaving you yearning for more!). This week’s preview is of the third Pilgrim Principle, “A pilgrim is a good steward of resources,” and explores the resources we have at our disposal for our journeys but are often overlooked (or sometimes just neglected): time, money, abilities, possessions, and the environment. Today’s preview is all about possessions–just in time for a season where our obsession for possessions threatens to overpower meaning, no?

Enjoy, and feel free to spread the love by sharing away!

MORE PRAISE FOR THE BOOK

Some more thoughts on the book, this time from Dan Cumberland of The Meaning Movement:

Dan Cumberland“Lacy is a woman of great depth and insight.  Her work and words continually call me into deeper places of meaning and authenticity. Listen closely to what she has to say! She will take you to surprising and important places—personally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically.”

-Dan Cumberland, themeaningmovement.com

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pilgrim principles free book preview: possessions

In this week’s introduction, I described the outfitting of the traditional pilgrim–coat, staff, hat, small satchel. Though times have changed and many advancements have been made in the travel gear market, one thing remains the same between the possessions of the traditional and modern pilgrim on a literal journey: they possess only what they can carry.

This doesn’t mean that they carry only the obvious necessities, though. Pilgrims today carry a change of clothes, soap, and a toothbrush, yes–but they also carry journals for reflection, books for inspiration, and photographs for remembrance. They might carry music for motivation or lip gloss to help them forget that they haven’t showered in five days. These things can be just as important to the well-being of the pilgrim as a jacket to shield him from the rain or a broken-in pair of boots.

Of course, filling a single bag with both practical and personal necessities can quickly result in overpacking. In fact, I’ve heard many stories of pilgrims on the Road to Santiago de Compostela leaving things behind that weren’t so important after all, just to lighten the load. As they journeyed, learning more about themselves as well as the path on which they walked, they came to realize that they could do without the things that once seemed necessary. In fact, in the end they felt better for it.

Being intentional with our possessions and lightening the load is something we can also practice in our daily lives as pilgrims, though with the amount of possessions in our homes, it will take more than a split-second to decide what we can leave behind and what to let go. Whether you can feel it or not, the possessions that surround us have a significant effect on our well-being, just as the weight of the pilgrim’s possessions can impact his journey. All of our possessions have joined us on our journey at one point. Whether their arrival was met with excitement, obligation, or indifference, anything that continues to be in our possession is still with us on our journey, no matter how deep and dark the closet is in which we try to hide it.

We could all benefit from lightening our load, as far as possessions go. And as is the case with the pilgrim, that doesn’t mean only keeping the things that are “necessary” in practical terms. It also means that we should hold onto the possessions that bring us life and nourish our souls. Beauty and remembrance meet needs of their own. However, deciding what stays and what goes isn’t an easy task. That’s why (again, as with the pilgrim) we have to pay attention to our daily journeys in order to discern which possessions are of true value to us and which ones are ultimately a burden.

For many of us, lightening the load is a great task that can take hours, days, months, and maybe (gulp!) years. But it is a necessary task if we want to live as pilgrims in the everyday, being good stewards of our resources and conscious of our possessions. There are a lot of great resources and suggestions out there about how to begin the minimizing process (there’s even an entire minimalist movement), and it’s up to you as to how to begin. I want to leave you with a suggestion that can help you begin lightening your load right now: start with just one thing a day.

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PRACTICE

Each day, identify one thing that you don’t need or use anymore and put it in an “outbox”–a designated box of things to sell, donate, or give to someone else. At the end of the month, get rid of the items inside. I have a feeling that if you start small like this, you’ll find it to be an easy and liberating process, and you might just be surprised by the things you no longer need or desire as your journey continues.

REFLECTION

What are some possessions you have that enrich your journey, bringing you life? Which possessions are burdensome items whose absence would lighten your spiritual and emotional load? Take action by placing these things in your outbox today.

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This post was an excerpt from
Pilgrim Principles: Journeying with Intention in Everyday Life,
releasing January 6, 2014.

Come back next Wednesday for another free preview!

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