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What’s Growing: New Things Coming to A Sacred Journey

What's Growing: New Things Coming to A Sacred Journey

one of many peonies currently blooming

In April, I made a big decision. I had been traveling for five weeks, in the moving process for many weeks prior to that, and in a liminal space since the previous September. In this in-between season, I wrote and released my first book, launched a new version of this website, and began blogging on a more regular basis.

A lot was happening, both personally and at A Sacred Journey, and I wanted to take some time to step back—not to discover how I could keep up the pace, but instead to see what was growing.

It was all inspired by the garden at my new apartment. When I left for five weeks of travel, February was just turing into March, which might as well be January in Seattle weather. There was a corner in our small yard that I knew had been used as a garden, but at that point it was filled with dead leaves and sticks, with the occasional bulb poking through.

However, I knew that while I was away whatever was there would begin to grow, and I was anxious to see what appeared. As time went on and I transitioned from cold and windy Ireland to dry and hot Arizona, I kept asking my husband, Kyle: “What’s growing?”

My many labyrinth walks at the retreat center in Arizona made me realize that I had this question for myself and my work, too. After I unpacked my bag back in Seattle in April, finally in a place I could call home, I shared with you my question and announced that I was going to take things more slowly as I waited to see what was growing.

What's Growing » asacredjourney.net

wild blackberry blossoms, promising many delicious pies

Over past two months, the metaphor has served perfectly, because as I’ve pondered what’s growing for me in my new home, my work with A Sacred Journey, and my general well-being, things have literally been growing around me.

Things planted long ago in my garden by someone other than me have sprung up—peonies, roses, and hydrangeas—the last of which I’m still waiting to discover what color they’ll be once they bloom.

On my walk to the bus (and literally in every wild place around this city), I’ve discovered wild blackberry blossoms and am making plans to return and forage as many as I can handle in the coming months, with hopes of not stopping until my fingers have turned a deep shade of blue.

I’ve also done some growing of my own in containers (terra cotta pots to be exact—my favorite). When it was determined that the sun had come and indeed decided to stay for a while, Kyle and I headed to a local greenhouse to start growing things of our own. We came home with lavender, mint, parsley, kale, strawberries, and various lettuces to put in a “salad bowl” that you can harvest all summer long. (I know—amazing, right?)

 

Grow your own "salad bowl" » asacredjourney.net

our “salad bowl,” ready to harvest

It turns out that over the past few months, this is how things have been growing for A Sacred Journey as well.

Some things I’ve discovered growing are things planted long ago that are being imagined anew and are finally coming to fruition. Other things are wild and surprised me as I crossed their path, but they also offer the juicy delights and abundant growth. And there are also things that I have planted myself over the past two months with care and intention, inspired by your responses to my recent survey and also by my own desires and what I think will grow best in this season in which I find myself.

So without further ado, here’s what’s growing at A Sacred Journey—some things that you already know about and other things that are entirely new:

NEW THINGS COMING TO A SACRED JOURNEY

a sacred journey print shop

I’ve been sharing my creative process with you over the past many weeks and am excited to launch the print shop and my premiere set of hand-lettered prints on Monday, June 23rd (this was one of the wild developments!).

These prints will be available in different sizes and colors and are exclusively available via download, so you’ll receive them immediately and can print them on your own. Those of you who took my reader survey in May and provided your email address will receive an email the day of the launch with a code to download a free print or put to a larger order! (Thanks again for your time and input.)

While the shop is launching with only three prints, I plan on adding to the collection as time goes on, including a perpetual Liturgical Calendar with themes, prompts, and reflections to help you sink more deeply into the Sacred journey of the liturgical seasons, available just in time for Advent.

spiritual direction

As you know, I recently finished a spiritual direction training program and received a certificate in spiritual direction. I’m excited to begin serving as a spiritual guide to seekers in an intimate setting, learning more of their own spiritual journey and walking alongside them, helping them discover and name the presence of the Divine in their everyday lives.

I’ll begin seeing directees in Seattle this summer, and when I open up my practice to those elsewhere for sessions over the phone or Skype, you’ll be the first to know!

pilgrim guides

This fall I’ll launch a collection that will continue to grow for years to come: Pilgrim Guides. Pilgrim Guides will be a line of downloadable resources for the pilgrim at home and abroad. The first guides available in this collection will be part of the spiritual practices library, offering mini guides on ancient practices for modern times. I’ll also be releasing guides on creating a morning ritual and packing essentials for the intentional traveler, expansions of my popular posts.

pilgrimage to Ireland

Another big development that I announced not long ago is the pilgrimage to Ireland I’ll be leading next March with Christine and John Valters Paintner of Abbey of the Arts. Designed for seekers in their 20s and 30s, this pilgrimage will be a time of retreat and reflection near Glendalough, home to one of the most important monastic sites in Ireland.

The theme for this journey is “The Soul’s Slow Ripening: Celtic Wisdom for Discernment,” and we will spend time listening to the wisdom of ancient Celtic monks for how to live a life of discernment and holy unfolding. It will be both an inner and outer journey and a time for renewal and inspiration.

Consider joining us, won’t you? Find out more here.

and more…

Spring is slowly fading into summer here in Seattle and the growing season is in full swing. So it is, too, with A Sacred Journey. There are many things still growing in regards to my work here, especially ideas for more offerings in the coming years, and I’ll be excited to share them with you when the time comes.

Until then, you can still find inspiration on spirituality and intention in travels and daily life each Monday, Wednesday, and Friday right here on the blog (with an occasional break here and there—let’s call it a Sabbath, shall we?). And, of course, you can easily stay up-to-date on new posts by subscribing to my newsletter. When you do, you’ll also get a FREE download of the mini-guide that inspired my book. Subscribe here.

GO FURTHER…

What’s been growing within you in this season?

How Do You Want to Feel? (my core desired feelings + discover your own)

The Desire Map

The Friday before last, I set off to one of our new favorite coffee shops in a nearby neighborhood with pen, notebook, and my copy of Danielle LaPorte’s The Desire Map in tow.

For the first time in a while, I left my laptop behind; the only reason I’d be needing the Internet for the next few hours would be for a good dictionary and thesaurus, and I had both on my phone.  I wrote recently about my new intention to begin taking one retreat day each season in order to return to my center and realign with my true self, and this was my first retreat day of many seasonal pauses to come. What better way to start than revisiting my Core Desired Feelings?

Though Core Desired Feelings are a new concept to many, the idea is pretty self explanatory:

How do you want to feel in the deepest part of your being?
What feelings make you come alive?
What feelings make you feel more aligned with your true self, and consequently closer to God?

I first went through The Desire Map last summer. I pored over every word, took the time to thoughtfully answer every question, listened to the recording over and over, and discovered my Core Desired Feelings for the season at hand. I shared them with you last August in a post about moving temporarily to San Diego:

Core Desired Feelings

My core desired feelings last summer?

freedom. centered. empowered. refreshed. fulfilled.

During that season in my life, these were feelings that I yearned for, and our deepest longings can always tell us something of our greatest needs. They are also great indicators of how things might need to change. (Remember the great wisdom from Phil Cousineau’s The Art of Pilgrimage? The question leads us to the quest.)

I added these Core Desired Feelings to a vision board and put them on the refrigerator in my house in San Diego. And in moments when I became flustered, irritable, or felt unsure or out of touch (which I’ll be honest, occurs in some form multiple times on a daily basis), I would bring my Core Desired Feelings to mind. In the moments when I paused, took a breath, and realized I had a choice in how I felt (which is a practice in itself that is still challenging to me), I would ask myself:

What can I do in this moment to make myself feel empowered, refreshed, and centered?
What could I change about my circumstances to make me feel free and fulfilled?

It’s a difficult practice to do, let alone to remember in those moments of chaos, and it often feels counter-intuitive to those who grew up in a religious world where desire was more often seen as a negative force. But desires at their core are all positive, earnest, and Sacred. We just have to work through the sometimes-murky impulses to get to their root. And at the root of our desires, just like at the root of our selves as image-bearers, is the presence of God.

In fact, you can think of your core desires as an invitation from the Divine: and indication of your growing edge and a revelation of the gifts God has uniquely for you as you continue on your journey toward Life.

Now I’m in another place and another season. I’m spending time asking What’s Growing? and am putting down roots for the first time in quite a while. I’m in the early stages of this new place and season, but I’ve already noticed a shift, particularly in my Core Desired Feelings, which is why I sat down two weeks ago to go through the process again.

Here are the Core Desired Feelings I named for this season—my new and Sacred invitation toward Life:

How Do You Want to Feel? (my core desired feelings + how you can discover yours)

abundance. energized. valued. settled. ease.

Each of these new Core Desired Feeling is unique to this season, and each hits right at the core of what I’m learning (my growing edge) and the longings I’m hoping and praying will be realized and fulfilled.

I’m writing them down and pinning them up all around me to remind me how I want to feel. If our core desires serve as guides for our journey, then these Core Desired Feelings serve as guideposts, and I’m looking to them to show me the way toward my true self and the Sacred in the season ahead.

I want to invite you to determine your own Core Desired Feelings for the season ahead, too. The process is richest if you go through the entire book and I highly recommend you buy yourself a copy and wear out its pages (it’s just $13.92 on Amazon!), but I’ve included some questions below from The Desire Map to get you started.

QUESTIONS & STEPS TO HELP YOU DISCOVER
YOUR CORE DESIRED FEELINGS

In response to the following questions, list how you want to feel. After you answer the questions, notice the commonalities—your Core Desired Feelings are hidden there. If you need some help thinking of feelings, Danielle LaPorte’s Core Desired Feelings Library is a good place to start.

How do you want to feel within the category of…
1. livelihood and lifestyle?
2. body and wellness?
3. creativity and learning?
4. relationships and society?
5. essence and spirituality?

GO FURTHER…

So tell me: how do you want to feel? 

Let’s Trade: a Word for a Word (a reader survey + giveaway)

A Sacred Journey Spring Survey » asacredjourney.net
As you might know, I’m in a season of asking “What’s Growing?” here at A Sacred Journey. (If you don’t know, read my post here.) Part of that process is hearing from you. As I contemplate what’s next for A Sacred Journey, including content and offerings, I’d love to know how you found A Sacred Journey, what kind of posts you love to read, what’s been inspiring you lately, and more.

And just to get you excited about what is to come, I’ll let you in on a little secret: The first thing I’ll be launching in June after my period of pondering what’s growing ends is a shop filled with prints to inspire, each designed by me. Put them on your bulletin board or your bathroom mirror, in your favorite frame or in a special place in your Sacred space—no matter where they find a home, these prints will serve as a reminder that life is a sacred journey. (Get a glimpse of my preliminary doodles above.)

As a thank you gift for your feedback, I’ll give you your choice of one print from the premiere collection once it launches in June. To get your free print, all you have to do is fill out the survey (with your email address included) by Saturday, May 31st.

A word for a word. What do you say?


PS: Congratulations, Kierin E.! You’ve won last week’s giveaway of Claire Díaz-Oritz’s new book, Hope Runs. I’ll connect with you soon to get you your prize!

This Friday Doesn’t Feel So Good…

I didn’t intend on posting today, but it seems these words were waiting to come out. If you follow the Christian liturgical calendar, I hope they invite you deeper into the tension of Holy Week, and if you are simply a seeker on a spiritual journey, I hope these words remind you of the power of staying amidst the uncertainty. Blessings to you in your descent.

This Friday Doesn't Feel So Good... » asacredjourney.net

This is my first year to actively engage the events of Holy Week, including Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, and Holy Saturday. I went to my first Maundy Thursday service last night and was deeply moved by the evening’s rituals. Sue Monk Kidd (one of my favorite authors) describes rituals as enacting meaning, and as the sanctuary was stripped bare in silence at the end of the mass, I felt as if I was being stripped bare, too.

No longer were we remembering events that happened nearly 2,000 years ago. The intimate supper, the heart-wrenching prayer, the tragic betrayal, and the sudden arrest were unfolding before me, and the tension was palpable. I carried this tension with me as I exited in silence, leaving the garden more alone and confused than when I arrived, Jesus’ desperate plea to his disciples now my very own invitation: “Will you stay? Will you join me in this place?”

I am still figuring what this looks like for me within the tension of these poignant few days, but a quote from Richard Rohr recently shared by Abbey of the Art’s Christine Valters Paintner offers some guidance amidst the mystery:

“[W]hen we look at the questions, we look for the opening to transformation. Fixing something doesn’t usually transform us. We try to change events in order to avoid changing ourselves. We must learn to stay with the pain of life, without answers, without conclusions, and some days without meaning. That is the path, the perilous dark path of true prayer.”

Oooh, I love to fix things. And I’d love to jump right on ahead to Easter because this place of tension doesn’t feel good and I sure could use a Reese’s egg right about now. But this time I’m accepting the invitation to stay. Instead of grasping for answers, I’m choosing to “look at the questions.”

After all, it’s part of being a pilgrim, right? I so hope you’ll join me on this leg of the journey.

GO FURTHER…

How can you practice staying with the tension rather than rushing toward relief and looking at the questions rather than grasping for answers in these final days of Holy Week?

 

PS: Some good suggestions from this year’s Holy Week post and last year’s Holy Week guide.

 

Join Me in Ireland Next Spring!

Join me in Ireland » asacredjourney.net

I’ve only been back home for a few days and things are already growing! I’m so excited today to announce my first offering here at A Sacred Journey (besides my book, of course!). Next March, I will be co-leading an Ireland pilgrimage for young adults (20s and 30s) with Christine and John Valters Paintner of Abbey of the Arts!

Called “The Soul’s Slow Ripening: Celtic Wisdom for Discernment,” the  journey is set in beautiful Glendalough, Ireland, and will be in the style of both a pilgrimage and retreat. Each day you will explore the natural wonders of Ireland and the gifts of Celtic Spirituality, going deeper through daily gatherings, time spent in reflection, and spiritual direction from yours truly.

There are only 10 spots available on this budget-friendly journey. Does one of those spots belong to you? Learn more and find out how to register here.

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