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A Sacred Journey

practicing pilgrimage at home and abroad

Let’s Trade: a Word for a Word (a reader survey + giveaway)

A Sacred Journey Spring Survey » asacredjourney.net
As you might know, I’m in a season of asking “What’s Growing?” here at A Sacred Journey. (If you don’t know, read my post here.) Part of that process is hearing from you. As I contemplate what’s next for A Sacred Journey, including content and offerings, I’d love to know how you found A Sacred Journey, what kind of posts you love to read, what’s been inspiring you lately, and more.

And just to get you excited about what is to come, I’ll let you in on a little secret: The first thing I’ll be launching in June after my period of pondering what’s growing ends is a shop filled with prints to inspire, each designed by me. Put them on your bulletin board or your bathroom mirror, in your favorite frame or in a special place in your Sacred space—no matter where they find a home, these prints will serve as a reminder that life is a sacred journey. (Get a glimpse of my preliminary doodles above.)

As a thank you gift for your feedback, I’ll give you your choice of one print from the premiere collection once it launches in June. To get your free print, all you have to do is fill out the survey (with your email address included) by Saturday, May 31st.

A word for a word. What do you say?


PS: Congratulations, Kierin E.! You’ve won last week’s giveaway of Claire Díaz-Oritz’s new book, Hope Runs. I’ll connect with you soon to get you your prize!

This Friday Doesn’t Feel So Good…

I didn’t intend on posting today, but it seems these words were waiting to come out. If you follow the Christian liturgical calendar, I hope they invite you deeper into the tension of Holy Week, and if you are simply a seeker on a spiritual journey, I hope these words remind you of the power of staying amidst the uncertainty. Blessings to you in your descent.

This Friday Doesn't Feel So Good... » asacredjourney.net

This is my first year to actively engage the events of Holy Week, including Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, and Holy Saturday. I went to my first Maundy Thursday service last night and was deeply moved by the evening’s rituals. Sue Monk Kidd (one of my favorite authors) describes rituals as enacting meaning, and as the sanctuary was stripped bare in silence at the end of the mass, I felt as if I was being stripped bare, too.

No longer were we remembering events that happened nearly 2,000 years ago. The intimate supper, the heart-wrenching prayer, the tragic betrayal, and the sudden arrest were unfolding before me, and the tension was palpable. I carried this tension with me as I exited in silence, leaving the garden more alone and confused than when I arrived, Jesus’ desperate plea to his disciples now my very own invitation: “Will you stay? Will you join me in this place?”

I am still figuring what this looks like for me within the tension of these poignant few days, but a quote from Richard Rohr recently shared by Abbey of the Art’s Christine Valters Paintner offers some guidance amidst the mystery:

“[W]hen we look at the questions, we look for the opening to transformation. Fixing something doesn’t usually transform us. We try to change events in order to avoid changing ourselves. We must learn to stay with the pain of life, without answers, without conclusions, and some days without meaning. That is the path, the perilous dark path of true prayer.”

Oooh, I love to fix things. And I’d love to jump right on ahead to Easter because this place of tension doesn’t feel good and I sure could use a Reese’s egg right about now. But this time I’m accepting the invitation to stay. Instead of grasping for answers, I’m choosing to “look at the questions.”

After all, it’s part of being a pilgrim, right? I so hope you’ll join me on this leg of the journey.

GO FURTHER…

How can you practice staying with the tension rather than rushing toward relief and looking at the questions rather than grasping for answers in these final days of Holy Week?

 

PS: Some good suggestions from this year’s Holy Week post and last year’s Holy Week guide.

 

Join Me in Ireland Next Spring!

Join me in Ireland » asacredjourney.net

I’ve only been back home for a few days and things are already growing! I’m so excited today to announce my first offering here at A Sacred Journey (besides my book, of course!). Next March, I will be co-leading an Ireland pilgrimage for young adults (20s and 30s) with Christine and John Valters Paintner of Abbey of the Arts!

Called “The Soul’s Slow Ripening: Celtic Wisdom for Discernment,” the  journey is set in beautiful Glendalough, Ireland, and will be in the style of both a pilgrimage and retreat. Each day you will explore the natural wonders of Ireland and the gifts of Celtic Spirituality, going deeper through daily gatherings, time spent in reflection, and spiritual direction from yours truly.

There are only 10 spots available on this budget-friendly journey. Does one of those spots belong to you? Learn more and find out how to register here.

Labyrinths (I think I’m in love)

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I take a deep breath as I stand at the entrance—here I am again. This has become my daily practice here in Arizona, and it’s unlike any other I’ve ever experienced.

I step into the maze and hear the gravel crunch beneath my feet with each step. As I follow the path, I carry with me a new question (or an old one), an intention, or a prayer. Sometimes it is simply my feet that carry my wonderings for me as I wander down this ancient path. Sometimes that is enough.

I’ve had a book about labyrinths by Lauren Artress, a labyrinth specialist, on my bookshelf for about three years, but I haven’t read it yet. Maybe that’s because I wasn’t quite sure how a simple path could fill 240 pages. Now I feel like I could fill a lifetime with this practice.

What I do know about labyrinths is this: they simulate a journey. And if journey is written on our hearts then perhaps the labyrinth is the way into our soul.

That’s what it feels like to me, anyway. And I don’t mean that in the grand, sweeping, transformational Sacred Encounter sense, though I’d gladly accept that anytime (God—are you listening?). Each day that I walk the labyrinth here, no matter what I bring and what I leave with, I feel like I’ve drawn closer to my soul because the walking settles me. The path leads me without any effort. And before I know it, I’ve entered the center—I’ve stumbled upon the holy.

Recently I’ve been circling the center three times, meditating on my word for the year or repeating a prayer I received in Ireland. And then I walk back out the same way I walked in.

Even though there are no dead ends on this path, I still don’t know my way. After walking this labyrinth 25 times, the twists and turns still throw me. And so I walk it slowly—like a meditation, like a prayer—unsure of when I’ll reach the end (and unsure if I really want to).  I’m careful to step over the anthill as I come to it once more, and somehow now they seem like companions on my journey. Here we share the same path, and our daily visitations make us a part of each other’s lives (though I’m not sure they feel the same depth of connection).

Soon, to my surprise, I’m back at the entrance—at a threshold once more. And even though I’m not always certain of what occurred within me during my time walking the labyrinth, I am always compelled to acknowledge the holy before I cross back over into the everyday. Often that simple shift is enough for me to look back on the path and call it good.

In this world of pilgrimage I often come across the phrase solvitur ambulando—it is made by walking. I’ll admit, while the phrase resonated, I never really understood it fully, and perhaps that’s because I was trying to understand it with words. But after walking this labyrinth each day during my time in here, I find my feet whispering, “solvitur ambulando,” and my soul echoing, “it is made by walking,” and I know the phrase is true.

What has been made? Who knows. But I think I’m in love. And love and uncertainty side-by-side is a miracle any day in my book. Solvitur amulando indeed.

GO FURTHER…

Have you walked a labyrinth before? What was your experience?

PS: A labyrinth locator and recent reflections on labyrinths as a spiritual practice from our May Pilgrim in Residence, Patricia Turner.

What’s Growing? (a question + announcement)

What is Growing? » asacredjourney.net

Over the past few weeks while I’ve been away from my new home in Seattle (to Ireland and now back to the Hesychia School of Spiritual Direction in Arizona), it seems as if spring has definitely sprung. Photos of fluffy pink cherry blossoms keep popping up in my Instagram feed and friends on Facebook share plans for riding bikes through the tulip fields. And if I were to visit the flower stalls at Pike Place Market, I’d be able to find a different variety of daffodil for every day of the week (maybe 2), each stem at just $1 a piece. Spring has sprung, for sure.

We just moved into a new apartment with a small yard, which is always an adventure, especially as spring rolls around. I knew there were plants there, but since we arrived at the end of winter they had not yet blossomed for the season. Now that spring is upon us, I’m eager to discover what’s there.

However, since I can’t be there right now, I have to go through Kyle to find these things out, and each time I’ve talked to him over the past few weeks, I’ve asked the same question: What’s growing?

After this question became routine, I came to realize that I had this question for myself, too. As you’ve probably gathered, over the past six months or so things have been a bit chaotic. Many of the things that have made my days so full over this period have been good, but when they all seem to happen back to back, it’s a little bit much for my introverted self (don’t worry—I’m already taking notes never to let this happen again). While I know these experiences have much to offer me (especially my recent pilgrimage to Ireland and my time here at Hesychia), sometimes it just feels like I’m getting by.

But I don’t want to just get by anymore, and I don’t want to finally return home after many weeks away and enter immediately back into the daily grind with no consideration for what is happening within me what that means should come next. And so, for the months of April and May, I’ve decided to intentionally step back and ask myself: What is growing?

In my own journey and with my work at A Sacred Journey, I want to take some time to step back and watch what emerges. I know some seeds have been planted, for sure. I  don’t know what they are yet, but I’m so eager to find out.

On a practical note, that means that posts will be a little less frequent over the next two months, but they’ll still be regular. We’ll be featuring 1-2 guest posts a week, starting on Thursday with our new Pilgrim in Residence: Dan Cumberland of The Meaning Movement (read his previous guest post here). I’ll also pop in from time to time too, simply because I can’t resist.

And in June? Well let’s just say that April showers bring May flowers, and I have a feeling some of those May flowers might show up as some new developments at A Sacred Journey in June. We’ll just have to wait and see!

Thanks for journeying with me so far. I so look forward to slowing down and discovering what’s growing over these next two months and finding out what it means for this space and its offerings. I have a feeling there will be some good surprises, just like the hydrangea bush we’ve discovered growing in our new back yard.

GO FURTHER…

What’s growing in your own journey this spring?

Photo Album: Pilgrimage to the Sacred Edge of Ireland

Our journey to the Sacred edge of Ireland has come to an end, and while I’ll still be on the Emerald Isle for a few more days, I will miss the community I’ve journeyed so deeply with so far during my first trip to Ireland. Though it might be days, weeks, or even months before I have the words to more deeply explore here my own stirrings while on this journey, I wanted to share with you pictures from the road.

Below you’ll find pictures and captions that I’ve been sharing on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook since my journey began. I have a few days left here and Ireland and will continue to share pictures online, so be sure to follow me on Instagram and Twitter and like A Sacred Journey on Facebook!

SETTLING IN…

I arrived a few days early to talk about pilgrimage with Christine (our guide and online Abbess of Abbey of the Arts) and settle in at our B&B in Galway on the west coast of Ireland before the others arrived.

Claddagh Ring » asacredjourney.net

Didn’t even know until getting here that my B&B is in Claddagh, birthplace of the Claddagh Ring, a symbol of love, loyalty, and friendship. Now I know what my souvenir will be!

DAY 1: HOSPITALITY

In the spirit of hospitality, John and Christine gave us a tour of their new hometown, Galway, and encouraged us to practice hospitality within on the journey ahead.

Galway Cathedral » asacredjourney.net

Started our walking tour at Galway Cathedral. Can you believe it was built in the 1950s? My favorite rose windows I’ve ever seen…

Galway to Seattle » asacredjourney.net

Another “Who knew?”: Seattle and Galway are sister cities! This plaque has an arrow facing Seattle’s direction, and apparently there is one in Seattle facing here.

DAY 2: COMMUNITY

As we began to get to know each other as those we would journey with over the next week, our temporary community of monks set out for our first day of visiting Sacred sites, including Temple Cronan in the Burren and Kilmacduagh Abbey.

Just returned from our first outing visiting Sacred sites—ruins of monasteries and Celtic Christian communities over 1,000 years old (image of Kilmacduagh Abbey)—and we were graced by the presence of a rainbow (and harsh winds and hail... It's a give and a take). No word yet on the pot of gold...

Just returned from our first outing visiting Sacred sites—ruins of monasteries and Celtic Christian communities over 1,000 years old (image of Kilmacduagh Abbey)—and we were graced by the presence of a rainbow (and harsh winds and hail… It’s a give and a take). No word yet on the pot of gold…

DAY 3: KINSHIP WITH NATURE

Nature dominates the Irish landscape and atmosphere and consequently played a central role in Celtic spirituality. On this day we visited a garden created in honor of St. Brigit, called Brigit’s Garden, as well as Cnoc Suain, where we learned more about Irish culture and how greatly it is informed by its natural surroundings.

Spent a rainy morning at St. Brigit's garden today, where there are gardens for each of the four Celtic seasons. This is "Samhain," or winter—a time for shelter and rest, stillness and reflection, death and rebirth.

Spent a rainy morning at St. Brigit’s garden today, where there are gardens for each of the four Celtic seasons. This is “Samhain,” or winter—a time for shelter and rest, stillness and reflection, death and rebirth.

DAY 4: SILENCE + SOLITUDE

As we visited Cong Abbey and Inchagoill Island, we were encouraged to explore the sites and soak in their essence in silence and solitude.

Today's theme: silence and solitude. My theme: soulful rest. This is how I started my day. (In a café called "The Hungry Monk" of course!)

Today’s theme: silence and solitude. My theme: soulful rest. This is how I started my day. (In a café called “The Hungry Monk” of course!)

Inchagoill Island, or "the island of the devout foreigner," where St. Patrick was briefly in exile.

Inchagoill Island, or “the island of the devout foreigner,” where St. Patrick was briefly in exile.

DAY 5: SABBATH

To mark the middle of our journey, we paused for a day of rest and delight, encouraged to follow the stirrings of our souls.

Irish Breakfast » asacredjourney.net

The start of Sabbath… “And it was good.”

DAY 6: WORK + SERVICE

As we entered the latter half of our journey and began to think about transitioning back to life at home, we visited Inishmore in the Aran Islands, with a tour of the island’s various Sacred sites led by Celtic priest Dara Malloy.

Took the scariest boat ride of my life to Inishmore in the Aran Islands, but the sites were worth it. Tying a prayer on a Hawthorne tree, found at Celtic Sacred sites.

Took the scariest boat ride of my life to Inishmore in the Aran Islands, but the sites were worth it. Tying a prayer on a Hawthorne tree, found at Celtic Sacred sites.

The hole down there is a holy well, and as we knelt in the mud and reached in today, our guide and Celtic priest told us it was like reaching deep within to find the Source of life. Loved that.

The hole down there is a holy well, and as we knelt in the mud and reached in today, our guide and Celtic priest told us it was like reaching deep within to find the Source of life. Loved that.

DAY 7: CONVERSION

On our final full day of our journey, we reflected on the transformation happening within us as we visited St. Colman’s hermitage and holy well in the Burren, spent time collecting rocks by the sea, and then ritualized the end of our journey and blessed those who had journeyed with us around the altar at Corcomroe Abbey.

St. Colman's Holy Well » asacredjourney.net

Evidence that pilgrims have gone before us to today’s holy well. There were ribbons, strips of fabric, keepsakes, medallions, and perhaps most poignant of all, a hospital bracelet, no doubt left as gratitude for healing or a prayer for a passed soul.

Within these stone walls we sang and blessed one another as our journey came to an end. Tomorrow we say goodbye, and then I'm off to Dublin!

Within these stone walls we sang and blessed one another as our journey came to an end. Tomorrow we say goodbye, and then I’m off to Dublin!

GO FURTHER…

Have you been to Ireland? Were you able to experience much of the island’s spiritual history while there?

What it Means to Me to be a Monk in the World

Since the theme of the pilgrimage I’m currently on through Abbey of the Arts is “Monk in the World: Pilgrimage to the Sacred Edge of Ireland,” I thought I’d share with you what it means to me to be a monk in the world. Last fall, Christine Valters Paintner of Abbey of the Arts asked me to share what it means to me to be a monk in the world on her site, and you know I couldn’t help but bring pilgrimage in, too! Read the post below.

P.S.: Come back tomorrow for pictures from my Ireland pilgrimage!

monk in the world » asacredjourney.net

Not too long ago, I moved from Missouri to Southern California. The desert landscape that would accompany us on our drive here gave me the chance to contemplate what it is like for monks to leave the world in order to devote their lives to prayer within the confines of a monastery. As we drove for hours on end, I particularly thought a lot about the life of the desert monastics and the draw of the silence, stillness, and solitude that such a vast expanse of barren and colorless landscape brings. In order to immerse themselves in the Divine, these monks left their homes in pursuit of something more.

That’s not so different from a pilgrim, really. Just like the monk, the pilgrim risks a great deal, leaving the known for the unknown, the secure for the mysterious. Pilgrimage is one of the most ancient spiritual practices, beginning with Abraham, who was called to leave home in pursuit of God. Since the time of Abraham, the faithful have journeyed beyond their borders to honor sacred encounters of the past, and also in hopes of new divine experiences and transformation.

Lacy in RomeToday, dreamers and seekers are setting out on pilgrimages with renewed interest, journeying to places like Iona or Santiago de Compostela in the footsteps of those who have gone before them. There is no doubt that a resurgence is taking place, and as with many renewals within the Church, it is moved by the breath of the Spirit. But what happens when the pilgrim returns home, attempting to integrate the rumblings of her journey into her everyday life? And what of the monastery’s visitor, arriving back after a retreat filled with contemplation, only to be rocked by the hustle and bustle of the world that he thought he had left behind?

As someone who lives “in the world,” that is where my greatest challenge begins. It is just so easy to get distracted at home, so tempting to stay comfortable, and so natural to lose sight of the sacred in things that quickly become mundane. Even my awareness of this doesn’t mean it’s not a struggle. Oh no–I wish it were that easy! For as long as I can remember, my heart has longed to roam beyond my front door, yearning for the transformation that can be found just beyond the horizon. And it’s true–inspiration and sacred encounter can happen in unique ways when we leave our everyday lives behind in order to journey. If it weren’t true, pilgrimage (and the metaphor it provides) wouldn’t be as powerful. But as I’ve learned, we all have to come home sometime.

Because of this reality, it is especially important to practice being a “monk in the world,” and for me, an everyday pilgrim. In fact, it is through this practice that I’d say I’m also an artist in everyday life. Sure, with a bachelor of fine arts degree and a website I both write for and curate, there are many traditional arts that fill my days: I’m a graphic designer and a watercolorist, a doodler-at-large and a novice knitter. I hum tunes all day and if you give me a room, I will transform it into an oasis and even come in under budget (now that’s an art!). But for me, these are just hobbies or ways to pay the bills. They bring me joy and flex my creativity, certainly, but they don’t stretch me quite like being a monk in the world and and everyday pilgrim does. To me, this is my art, and each day is my medium.

Lacy desertOf course, to the outsider, this makes it seem a lot more impressive than it really is. To practice and to create each day as a monk in the world and an everyday pilgrim is fulfilling, yes, but it is also a daily challenge. I must not only show up to the silence, stillness, and solitude every morning that comes with the way of contemplation, or the awareness and curiosity that are required for the pilgrim–each day I must also show up to face the struggles that are sure to arrive. As a monk who is not in a monastery but in the world, and a pilgrim who is journeying intentionally not just abroad but in everyday life, I am straddling two realities. These two realities are so natural to our image-bearing souls, yet in this in-between world of “already and not yet,” the monk in the world and the everyday pilgrim are still seemingly antithetical. This means that I am continuously wrestling, because I choose to stand at the edge.

This is how I know that my commitment to be a monk in the world and an everyday pilgrim is my art: because each day I show up to the blank canvas on a Spirit-fueled search, seeking inspiration and bringing with me desires and questions alike. And each day I struggle, wrestling with insecurities, whisperings of my false self, and “shoulds” and shame leftover from time that has long since passed. But, most important to the work of an artist–amidst the desire and the struggle, I stay. And I return each day again and again, because creating a life as a monk in the world honors my sacred desires, and living daily as an everyday pilgrim engages my quest. Each day, the canvas awaits, and all I must do is come with intention in my mind, inspiration in my heart, and a brush in my hand.

Lacy Clark Ellman’s two greatest loves are spirituality and travel, and she was a pilgrim long before she ever fully understood the meaning of the practice. She has a Master of Arts degree in Theology and Culture and is the founder and curator of asacredjourney.net, where she explores her two loves through her own writing and the contributions of other pilgrims. Her upcoming book, Pilgrim Principles: Practicing Pilgrimage Everyday, is a seven-week journey at home that explores what it means to be pilgrims in our daily lives. It will be released in January 2014. To learn more about the book, follow A Sacred Journey’s posts, and download free offerings, subscribe here. You can also follow A Sacred Journey on Twitter and Instagram and Like it on Facebook.

GO FURTHER…

What does it mean to you to be a “monk in the world?”

It’s My Birthday! Here’s My Gift to You…

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Well my five weeks away from home have begun! I’m back in San Diego for a week with Kyle’s family, trying my best to balance work and play. Aware that this balance will be difficult over the next five weeks (especially when I add into the mix the inner work I’ll be doing in Ireland and Arizona) I’ve decided to just post three times a week while I’m away—Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays. For my subscribers, I’ll still be sending out the newsletter each Friday with links to the past week’s posts. (Subscribe why don’t you?)

Today just so happens to be my birthday (27!), and to celebrate, I want to give something to you! Starting today through next Monday, March 17th at midnight PST, the Kindle edition of my book Pilgrim Principles will be available for only $4.99—that’s over  50% off!

watch the trailer by Sparkfly Photography with music by this month’s Pilgrim in Residence, Kelsey Kopecky (Feather and Belle)

I’d love for you to join me in my birthday celebration by buying yourself a copy. And if you already have it in print, this might be the perfect time to add it to your Kindle library for those times when you want to take some reading with you on the road! If you don’t have a Kindle, don’t worry. As long as you have a tablet or laptop, you can still take advantage of this limited-time sale by downloading the Kindle app. And of course, you can make it the gift that keeps on giving by purchasing the Kindle edition for someone you think might enjoy Pilgrim Principles.

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buy the kindle edition of Pilgrim Principles for just $4.99

Making Space: A Gentle Lent

Today I’m linking up with Elizabeth Esther and her gentle Lent movement. Learn more about Elizabeth’s declaration for a gentle Lent here and read the rest of the posts in the linkup here. We’ll also hear more about Lent this Wednesday from our Liturgical Guide, Katie Jensen.

A Gentle Lent » asacredjourney.net

I’ve only been in the liturgical world for a few years now. In fact, it was Lent that initially drew me toward liturgy. I knew of the season growing up only through those around me who gave up junk food like chocolate or potato chips. I’m sure giving up things like that can be meaningful in a way, because they can be so tempting that they offer plenty of opportunity to remind us why we’re fasting in the first place, but I never loved that it perpetuated a diet-mentality. Sometimes I wondered if the lost pounds were more motivation than the desire to draw closer to God in imitation of Christ’s 40 days in the wilderness.

The first year I participated in Lent I gave up watching the Today Show every morning. It had been a staple in my morning routine for years, and yet always made me feel rushed. Though I missed mornings with Meredith and Matt and was a bit behind on the news during that spring, I was surprised by how much time I had in the morning when I didn’t watch—time to move slowly, time to sit in silence, time to go deeper. That experience transformed my perspective of Lent (which, admittedly, was a bit skewed all along). To me, Lent was no longer a season of withholding. Instead, it was a time set aside for making space.

I don’t think Jesus went into the wilderness just to fast. He could have fasted anywhere. And if drawing near to God was purely experienced through reading Scripture, perhaps he should have stuck closer to the temple. But he didn’t. Instead he spent 40 days in the desert. He was seeking out space to sink deeper into his humanity, draw closer to God, and further prepare for his work in the world. We’ve got a contemplative on our hands, folks. And he was onto something.

Over the past many weeks and months I have been longing for space in my life. (Maybe you’ve picked up on it?) And with Lent approaching, I’ve been wondering what I might do to create space in this season of letting go. I thought I was onto something when I decided perhaps I could give up saying “yes” during the season of Lent—Yes, I’ll do it. Yes, I’ll go. Yeah, it’s okay—no problem! But then I realized I’ll be gone nearly the entire Lenten season. I had already said yes to everything imaginable.

With my only good idea gone I wasn’t sure what I would do for Lent, and I certainly had no idea how I might get the space my soul so desperately needed if I was going to be away from home for five weeks straight. And then last week I read a post by Elizabeth Esther inviting readers to join her for a gentle Lent. She had me at the title—gentle is just the thing I need in this busy season ahead.

“If you’re like me,” she says in the post, “you probably need less doing this Lent and more being.” Yes, yes, yes! Oh, Elizabeth—a thousand times yes!

As the word gentle began swirling in my mind and stirring in my soul, I realized that although five weeks away from home during the season of Lent seems like a whole lot of doing in my book, each week will be in a spacious setting with gentle days that inspire not doing, but being. With one week on the beach in San Diego, two weeks on pilgrimage in Ireland, and two more weeks spent in the desert with fellow contemplatives, this Lenten season I just might have more space than I could have ever imagined, all lined up in a row.

My duty this Lenten season, then, is to remember to stay present in these spacious places. But it’s going to be hard—my mind runs on busy like it’s fuel. It’s toxic, however, and gets me the worst mileage. This Lenten season I’ll need something more sustainable, and that’s where the word gentle comes in.

I don’t have anything specific I’ll be giving up for Lent this year. I’ve already said yes to everything, after all. But I’m going to hold tightly to the word gentle as a reminder to make space to go deeper in these full weeks ahead. I want to be gentle with myself and gentle with my days. I suppose gentle could also mean intentional, and I want that, too.

If that means a few missed posts or newsletters, so be it. If being gentle this Lent means late emails and getting behind on social media, the world won’t end. And if half the things on my to-do list are left undone, that’s okay—I won’t be home to do them anyway. I’ll be at the edge of the water, at the top of the hill, and in the heart of the wilderness seeking out space and drawing closer to the Sacred.

GO FURTHER…

Do you practice Lent? How might you use this season to make more space in your life?

Dress for the Trip You Want to Have: My Travel Wardrobe

Believe it or not, even though we’re just settling in here in Seattle, at the end of next week I’ll be heading off again for five weeks, with one week spent in San Diego, two weeks on pilgrimage with Christine Valters Paintner in Ireland, and two final weeks in Arizona as I finish up my spiritual direction training.

Needless to say, even though we’re still unpacking, I’ve got packing on the brain. I’m especially interested in packing wisely since I’ll be traveling to different climates—I’ll need a wardrobe that works well for cold rainy days in Ireland and sweaty 8+ degree days in Arizona. Since I don’t have much capacity right now to figure it all out from scratch (my clothes aren’t even organized to select from!), I’ll be looking back to last year’s “Dress for the Trip You Want to Have” guest post as a part of Dear Abby Leigh’s “Dress for the Day” series. 

I thought I’d share it again with you here, too, in case you missed it last year and need a little packing inspiration for your upcoming adventure. Whether 5 days or 50, it’s always important to dress (and pack) for the trip you want to have. It makes a difference in your mood, I promise! Plus, it makes the load a little lighter.

I have traveled for as long as I can remember, and my journeys away from home have always impacted my life in new, exciting, and challenging ways.

In October, my husband Kyle joined me for his first trip to Europe. Since my travels have been so formative in the past, it was really significant to now be traveling abroad as a couple. Who knew what this new shared experience would bring?

Before we left, I planned to pack the same old stuff I’d worn on past trips abroad—clothes that are flexible, comfortable, sensible, and fit in the backpacking backpack serving as my suitcase. Packing for the off-season—cold weather clothes take up more room—meant I would have to bring even fewer pieces.

As the trip drew near and visions of tea time, the Eiffel Tower, and pesto danced in my head, I found my go-to travel wardrobe to be lacking in the inspiration department. When it came time to pack, I decided to apply Abby’s “Dress for the Day” mantra to my travel wear. I found inspiration to dress for the trip I wanted to have.

The trip I wanted to have was largely based on how I wanted to feel while journeying: I wanted to feel cozy in Scotland, confident in London, fashionable on the streets of Paris, and care-free when in Rome—because when in Rome…

Basically, I wanted to feel empowered and ready for adventure, and there’s no reason why my wardrobe couldn’t pull some of the weight on this new endeavor. With only a couple of new purchases and some rearranging, I managed to put together a new wardrobe to fit the bill.

4 COUNTRIES, 40 DAYS, 1 BACKPACK

Here it is, along with some tips of the trade and some photos of the wardrobe in action:

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  1. Daypack. You need a purse, but when traveling, you often need a bit more – water, a guidebook, a camera, etc. It’s also important in my opinion to have a cross-body bag that zips or latches shut. It’s easier to access and carry for a long day, plus it keeps you safer from pick pockets (you’ll definitely never find me wearing a money belt). I bought this handmade leather bag from an Indian on Etsy… for $65! Done.
  2. Shoes. These Naturalizer boots are one of my new purchases for the trip. Great for walking, any type of (cooler) weather, and can be dressed up or down. In a successful trip wardrobe, everything goes with everything, so remember this when packing. This time around (and usually every time) I choose camel for my necessities (bag, shoes, belt).
  3. Scarf. fashions best invention, especially for your trip. It can make an entirely new outfit, and they pack so small there’s often room for multiples. Plus it’s great for when it’s cool but too warm for a jacket/coat.
  4. Sunglasses. Always. You never know when the sun will peek through, even if your destination seems dreary.
  5. Things to bundle. Since we were beginning in Scotland, I knew I’d be needing to keep myself warm. That doesn’t mean it can’t fit in my scheme, though (and double as a beret in Paris)! I also took this coat in black from Land’s End. Not the ideal choice for fashion, but it still looked nice and kept me dry and warm, whatever the weather might be (and had secret pockets!).
  6. Shirt. Another new item I splurged on for the trip that had been on my list for a long time. I wore this chambray shirt from Canvas more than anything else.
  7. Dress. You never know when you’ll go out to a nice dinner or see a show, and my blah wardrobe from before might have kept me from this! Unacceptable. Even though I’ve had this cotton dress for years, it just so happened to be in the season’s it-color – oxblood. Success.
  8. Tights. To go with the dress (or to wear underneath jeans on a blustery day).
  9. Sweaters. Both of the cardigan variety. Perfect for layering, and great to have 2 to mix things up (or during laundry days!).
  10. T-shirts. You just can’t go wrong with nice white t-shirts. These had a great feel to them, were long, had an elegant scoop neck, and cost only $5.80 at Forever 21. Naturally, then, you should by 3 and bring them all.
  11. Belt. Always bring a belt, even if you think you won’t need it. Because when you wear your jeans three days in a row you will. Plus, you can also use it to accessorize the dress, sweater, or button-down shirt.
  12. Jeans. Dark and straight leg is best. Dark hides grime and thin looks put together. No need to look sloppy!
  13. Jewelry. choose a few select pieces that will really add to the outfit in the same scheme – this time I went with gold.
  14. Leggings. Another new purchase and so worth it. These are thick black leggings from Loft and they were cozy and elegant simultaneously. Win.

I know, I know, it looks all nice out on the bed. Here’s how it worked in action:

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  1. Dressing for departure: 2 days and three flights. Must feel good (and bring an extra t-shirt to change into!).
  2. Outside Tower Bridge in London. Cozy dresses are great for exploring cities and feeling chic.
  3. Perfect outfit for romping in the leaves outside Buckingham palace, don’t you think?
  4. The coat—not so bad, right? Though I might have fared better with the policeman’s coat who was guarding 221B Baker Street. Classy and warm.

  1. In the Eiffel Tower in Paris. Picked up this sparkly sweater (still in my scheme!) at an H&M in Canterbury. Always leave room in your suitcase for a few additions!
  2. In Nice. In every picture before this I had to take off my coat for the photo, but no longer! This really was a perfect day for a dress.
  3. Hiking in Cinque Terre in Italy. Wardrobe still going strong.
  4. In the Roman Forum—ready for some excavating.

  1. We rented a scooter on our last day in Rome. This outfit is significant for two reasons—1. it was great for riding the scooter (no need to wear sensible shoes!) and 2. I had to wear the same thing for the next two days. We were returning to the US the next day and sleeping in the Rome airport that night—not on my list of recommendations. (Bonus: outfit looks très chic when slightly cocking your hip to the right and leaning on a scooter.)
  2. Another wardrobe addition—new shoes from Zara. When in Europe, shop as the Europeans do! (but stay on budget)

GO FURTHER…

Any travel wardrobe tips of your own?

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